You disputed the fraudulent transactions. The bank denied you.

Then somebody in customer service said, “Well, you can send us screenshots.”

So you sent the screenshots.

Denied again.

Then somebody told you to send a police report. You went through the trouble of making the report, getting a copy, and sending it to the bank.

Denied again.

Then they wanted a written statement. Or a sworn statement. Or some other piece of information that sounded like it might finally make a difference. You sent that too.

And somehow, after doing everything the bank told you to do, you are still sitting there with the same answer:

Denied.

At some point, a perfectly reasonable person starts asking:

“If none of this is ever enough, why do they keep telling me to send them more stuff?”

That is an excellent question.

Every New Request Gives You Hope

This is something I see in Bank Hacking cases that makes me particularly angry. The bank does not necessarily give you one final denial and tell you to go away. Instead, somebody tells you there is another thing you can do: send us this, provide that, call this number, submit these documents, appeal the decision.

And every time they tell you that, you reasonably think there must be a reason. You think:

  • “Okay, maybe they just need the police report.”

  • “Maybe these screenshots will finally prove it.”

  • “Maybe someone different will look at it on appeal.”

  • “If I give them exactly what they asked for, surely they’ll fix this.”

So you cooperate. Of course you do. You want your money back, and the bank is telling you what supposedly needs to happen next. The problem is what happens when nothing you provide ever seems to be enough.

Hours on the Phone With “Customer Service”

Then there are the phone calls. You call customer service and explain the entire story. Maybe you spend an hour on the phone. Maybe you get transferred. Maybe the next person makes you explain everything again because apparently none of the first conversation followed you to the next department.

Then somebody tells you what to do next, so you do it and call back. Now you are talking to somebody else. You explain the story again. Maybe that person gives you a different answer. Maybe they tell you the claim is closed. Sometimes the bank says it investigated and found no fraud.  Maybe they tell you to appeal. Maybe they say another document would help.

I put quotation marks around “customer service” because sometimes it stops feeling very much like service. You are spending your time doing exactly what the bank tells you to do while the bank keeps finding new ways to leave you in exactly the same place.

You Think You Are Working Toward a Solution

That is what makes this process so effective at exhausting people. You do not necessarily realize while it is happening that you are going in circles, because each new request feels like progress.

The police report feels like progress. The screenshots feel like progress. The sworn statement feels like progress. The appeal feels like progress. There is always another door, so you keep thinking one of those doors must eventually lead somewhere.

But if you walk through five doors and keep ending up in the same room, eventually you have to wonder whether the process is actually designed to get you anywhere.

The Bank Already Knows What You Are Saying

Another part of this that drives people crazy is having to prove the same basic fact over and over again. You already told the bank: “I did not make these transactions.”

Then you send documents supporting what you already told them. You make a police report saying you did not make the transactions. You send screenshots supporting your story. You sign another statement saying you did not authorize the transactions.

And somehow the bank keeps acting as though the problem is that you have not yet said “I didn’t do this” in exactly the right format. That can make an honest person start wondering what else they are supposed to do.

Sometimes the answer is: maybe you have already done enough.

An Appeal Is Not Necessarily a Fresh Start

The word “appeal” can sound encouraging. It sounds like somebody higher up is going to take a fresh look at everything. It sounds like a second chance. It sounds like the first decision might actually be reconsidered.

Maybe it will be. But do not assume that simply because the bank calls something an “appeal,” the outcome is going to change. If you have already given the bank the facts, supplied the documents it requested, explained what happened repeatedly, and received another denial, you should at least consider whether another trip through the same system is really the best use of your time.

That does not mean every bank appeal is worthless. It means you should stop assuming that the next thing the bank asks you to do must be the thing that finally fixes the problem.

You Are Not Crazy for Being Exhausted

By the time people reach us, some of them have spent weeks or months trying to be good customers. They have been patient, polite, and organized. They have kept records, called the numbers they were given, uploaded the documents, filed the police report, and followed the instructions.

And they are exhausted.

If that describes you, the important question may no longer be “What else does the bank want me to send?” It may be “Why am I still doing this by myself?”

If your bank has already denied your debit card dispute, see what to do next.

This Is Why We Exist

If you have already sent your bank screenshots, a police report, written statements, or other information it requested—and your fraud claim is still being denied—you do not necessarily need another customer service representative to give you another assignment.

You may need somebody outside the bank to look at what happened.

Call us, start a chat, or fill out the contact form on this website and select “Bank Hacking.” Tell us what was stolen, what the bank asked you to provide, and what happened after you provided it.

There is no cost to find out if our law firm can help. We only get paid if we recover money for you.

Michael F. Cardoza, Esq.
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U.S. Marine & Consumer Financial Protection Attorney helping victims of ID theft and Credit Reporting errors.
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